Lemons and Lemonade

Life is full of contrasts.

As we move through our personal life experiences, I think that many of us get caught up in the ones that are like lemons - sour, distasteful and unpleasant on our pallets.

Personally, I have always thought of myself as a survivor. It would seem that the experiences that I find the most distasteful in my life are also the ones that bring out some of my best qualities. During a troubled childhood, I found that I was independent and strong. During financial hardships, I found that I was resourceful and driven by the love for my family. Yet, still, my preference would be to avoid this part of life's challenges.  How about you?

I look back to the earlier part of my life and I see that I often comforted myself with the thought that everything happens for a reason. Somewhere along the line, probably about mid-life, I changed my thinking.  I saw that the reason everything looked like it happened for a reason could also be explained by the fact that everytime I was served lemons, I worked very hard at finding the ingredients to make a tasety lemonade.

Today, I probably have a more blended view.  I believe that I buy the lemons so that I can make the lemonade - my life being my creation.

So as I make up my shopping list for tomorrow, I think I'm going to leave out the lemons (for at least awhile) and stick to something that appeals to my pallet more.  Maybe this time I'll pick something like apples for an apple pie.

Are You Paddling Upstream?

If our life experiences form the river that we flow in, which direction are you traveling in?

I have always had an insatiable interest in what the human mind is capable of.  Ever since I was a young kid, I read all kinds of books on psychic phenomena and the supernatural.  To this day, I am interested in all belief systems from the main stream religions to the ones on the edge.  I am a bit of a self-help book junkie too, because, like my interest in sci-fi, it helps me to, if only temporarily, step out of my box and look at the world through a different paradigm.

I've just finished reading a book written by Esther and Jerry Hicks entitled

The Astonishing Power of Emotions Let Your Feelings Be Your Guide

I feel that I have to mention that these authors credit the material in their books to an energy known as Abraham, an energy channeled by Esther. Alternatively, I also feel that I have to mention that I don't believe you have to accept the idea of channeling to get something of value out of reading the interesting perspectives being presented in their books. So if you don't believe in this school of thought, put aside where they say the information comes from, and I'll attempt to share with you what I got out of reading this book.

The analogy used here is one of a stream or river whereby the flow is made up of all of our life experiences.

It's simple really.

If you feel unhappy because life seems hard, you have been paddling upstream. When you are happy and everything seems to be falling into place, you are moving with the flow downstream. And, as you can imagine, you are never moving solely in one direction.

So why do so many of us use up our energies by continually paddling upstream?

For me, I believed that everything I ever wanted or needed was upstream. I come from a belief system that tells me that hard work and sacrifice is necessary to be happy in the end. The journey was not something you were intended to relish or look forward to - only the end result counted.

So what if I'm wrong? Or maybe, not so much "wrong" as, "misguided" - only seeing a small portion of the puzzle and not the big picture. Maybe, working hard is a choice. Maybe, it's my choice to work hard because it gives me a feeling of satisfaction. Maybe, I don't have to work hard for everything. Maybe, I can give up that belief if it no longer serves me.

Let's go with that thought for a moment.

So, where's the bleep, bleep map showing me the big picture!

Well, obviously we don't get a map, or a user's guide for that matter. But, think about it - if the only direction we should be taking is downstream, do we really need one?

But what if I'm not always aware that I'm paddling against the current? Wouldn't it be nice to, at least, have a compass handy?

Voila! We do have a compass - our emotional guidance system.

So where's the bleep, bleep manual you ask?

You don't need one. It's easy to navigate. When you are feeling happy you are moving downstream.

How simple is that?

If you found these ideas interesting visit my folder on SkyDrive and download a series of audio files of Abraham to listen to.

http://cid-741e2a2b5c830ef8.skydrive.live.com/browse.aspx/.Public/Abraham

Also, here is the website for Esther and Jerry Hicks.

http://www.abraham-hicks.com/lawofattractionsource/index.php